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Coping with Emotions

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How to Manage Emotions

Coping with Emotions

Written by: Clinical Psychologist - Ishienyi Ginika

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Emotions are natural responses that humans experience in reaction to events or situations. They are complex psychological states that involve three key components:

A subjective experience
A physiological response
A behavioral or expressive response

The type of emotion a person experiences is determined by the circumstances that trigger the emotion. For instance, a person experiences joy when they receive good news and fear when they are threatened. Emotions have a strong influence on our daily lives.

We make decisions based on whether we are happy, angry, sad, bored, or frustrated. We also choose activities and hobbies based on the emotions they incite.

Understanding emotions can help us navigate life with greater ease and stability. Being aware of our internal emotional state and being more mindful and present with how our mind and body respond to situations enables us to manage stress better.

We can then have improved emotional regulation, emotional resilience, and lower anxiety levels. By recognizing and tuning into our own emotions, we become more self-aware, and more mindful, which allows us to make informed decisions and respond to situations more effectively.

Why Emotional Awareness Matters

Being emotionally aware helps you:

Manage stress more effectively
Improve your emotional regulation and resilience
Reduce anxiety and depression
Make better, informed decisions
Build stronger relationships

By tuning into your emotions and practicing mindfulness, you develop emotional intelligence, which empowers you to respond rather than react to life’s challenges.

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Types of Emotions

Here are some common emotions and their characteristics:

Happiness

A pleasant emotion that brings a sense of satisfaction and well-being. It is often shown through smiling, laughter, or a cheerful tone of voice.

Sadness

A common emotional response to loss, disappointment, or grief. It may cause crying, withdrawal, or silence. Everyone experiences sadness at various points in life.

Fear

Triggered by actual or perceived danger, fear can lead to physical symptoms like a rapid heartbeat or sweating. It can also activate the fight-or-flight response. Interestingly, some people seek fear intentionally through thrilling activities like horror movies or skydiving.

Disgust

A reaction to something unpleasant, such as bad smells, sights, or immoral behavior. It can be physical (e.g., rotten food) or moral (e.g., unethical acts).

Anger

Often a reaction to perceived injustice or frustration. Anger can lead to frowning, shouting, or aggressive behavior. While it can be a powerful motivator for change, unmanaged anger may harm your relationships and health..

Surprise

Can be positive or negative, and may include physical reactions like gasping or widened eyes. Like fear, surprise can trigger an adrenaline rush.

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Primary vs. Secondary Emotions

Emotions can also be categorized based on whether they are primary or secondary.

Primary emotions are the emotions that humans experience universally. There are different theories as to what these specific emotions are, but they often include happiness, sadness, fear, disgust, anger, and surprise.

Secondary emotions stem from and are variations of primary emotions. Sometimes, we have secondary emotions in response to our primary emotions. Secondary emotions may include frustration, pride, envy, and jealousy.

Emotions, Feelings, and Moods

People often use the terms emotions, feelings, and moods interchangeably, but they actually mean different things. Emotions are reactions to stimuli, but feelings are what we experience as a result of emotions.

An emotion is normally quite short-lived, but intense. Emotions are also likely to have a definite and identifiable cause.

Feelings are influenced by our perception of the situation, which is why the same emotion can trigger different feelings among people experiencing it.

Take the example of disagreeing with your friend. You might both walk away from the conversation having experienced the emotion of anger.

Your anger might feel like frustration because you feel that your friend never listens to you when you speak. Your friend's anger, on the other hand, might feel like jealousy because they feel you know much more about the topic than they do.

Both of you have the same emotion, but your feelings are different based on your separate interpretations.

A mood can be described as a temporary emotional state.

Sometimes moods are caused by clear reasons you might feel everything is going your way this week, so you're in a happy mood.

But in many cases, it can be difficult to identify the specific cause of a mood. For example, you might find yourself feeling gloomy for several days without any clear, identifiable reason.

Emotions

Short-lived responses to specific stimuli (e.g., anger during an argument).

Feelings

The personal interpretation of emotions (e.g., anger may feel like betrayal or frustration).

Moods

Longer-lasting emotional states that may not have a clear cause (e.g., feeling gloomy all week without a specific reason).

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Coping with emotions strategies

Coping with emotions involves developing strategies to recognize, understand, and manage feelings, especially during challenging times. This includes identifying triggers, practicing mindfulness, and seeking support. Healthy coping mechanisms help maintain emotional balance and build resilience.

Here's a more detailed look at strategies for coping with emotions:

Recognizing and Acknowledging Emotions:

Notice your emotions: Pay attention to your feelings and how they manifest physically and emotionally.

Name your feelings: Labeling your emotions can help you understand them better.

Accept your emotions: Avoid suppressing or judging your feelings, as this can intensify them.

Understanding Triggers:

Identify your triggers: Recognizing what situations or events tend to evoke strong emotions can help you prepare for them.

Practicing Mindfulness and Self-Compassion:

Mindfulness: Engage in practices like meditation or deep breathing to stay present and observe your emotions without judgment.

Self-compassion: Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer a friend.

Use Healthy Coping Mechanisms:

Engage in physical activities like walking, dancing, or yoga.

Practice journaling or creative expression.

Connect with supportive friends or family.

Avoid unhealthy habits such as substance abuse, excessive screen time, or emotional eating.

Manage Stress:

Prioritize sleep and healthy nutrition.

Organize your time and responsibilities.

Use relaxation techniques such as guided imagery, music, or nature walks.

Seek Professional Help:

Sometimes, emotions can become overwhelming. If you’re struggling to cope on your own, speaking to a trained mental health professional can make a significant difference.



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